help me protect the vibes

This is a place for conversation about disability. Because it’s a more sensitive topic, I’m setting community guidelines that should be followed at all times when commenting on blog posts and interacting with others on this site.

this will not be tolerated:

• hate speech of any kind (racism, sexism, misogyny, xenophobia, homophobia, transphobia, etc.) when in doubt, delete it out.

• I shouldn’t have to say this on a blog about disability, but no ableism will be tolerated.

• keep your cures and advice to yourself unless specifically asked. when in doubt, ask for permission.

• do not try to sell something in the comments. your mlm essential oil will not cure me.

• bullying, harassment, or doxxing

actively encouraged:

• thoughtful, kind comments that further the conversation, show support for other commenters, commiserate, or contribute in any other positive way

• thoughtful criticism, dissent, or questioning of what’s been said

• sharing your experience when you feel comfortable

• respecting that not everyone is willing to share every part of their story, and respecting those boundaries people draw